As a woman, we should all be thankful as we have an incredible body. It can do miracle just by bringing life in to the world. Imagine your body having to go through that process for nine months and still can conquer the world.
I encourage you, as a lady, not to feel less of yourself. You deserve love - mostly coming from yourself and the rest will follow. You will attract positive vibes and energy ones you start feeling good about yourself. Start from with in, not form the outer shell.
Also, in addition, even if you found a man that loves and accepts you for who you are doesn't mean you'd stop trying to look good for him too.
Signing off.